Adolescent children have a reputation for being oppositional particularly when they feel tired, hungry, stressed or upset about something. They may at one time or another resist, talk back, disobey, argue, and defy elders. These behaviors may also arise during times of significant transition, stress or crisis. Being oppositional can be considered to be a natural part of development for young children and adolescents.

Oppositional behavior, however, can become a serious concern when defiant conduct occurs frequently and more intensely when compared with other young people. It can be a cause of worry if it affects various aspects of your child’s life, including family, social, and academic areas. Due to their rebellious nature, it may be tough at times to differentiate a strong-willed or emotional child from one with oppositional defiant disorder (ODD).

Prevalence of ODD

There is a range of estimates on the prevalence of ODD among children and adolescents. Evidence suggests that ODD affects six percent of all children in the United States. Although the disorder seems to be identified more in lower socioeconomic groups, ODD can affect anyone. It has no regard for age, race, size, or gender. 

Signs that Your Child May Have ODD

There are signs that your child may have symptoms of ODD. If you notice any of the following behaviors you may want to consult with a behavioral health profession: 

• You live in a home where everyone is careful not to agitate the aggressive behavior of one child 
• The same child consumes all your emotional resources, leaving you barely enough energy to give to your other children. 
• The child’s rude and insubordinate behavior in school and other settings is often a source of embarrassment for you and your family. 
• You are likely constantly on edge while restraining yourself from yelling at or disciplining a child who doesn’t respect you or show remorse for any misbehavior.

Despite all the parenting approaches you have tried, you may feel that nothing works with your adolescent child. This can leave you feeling confused, frustrated, guilty, disappointed and angry. Without really knowing how to properly respond to such defiant behavior or what disciplinary consequences will work, it makes sense if you feel exhausted and irritable. As a result, you can become unpleasant to be with thus you and your spouse may end up in never-ending arguments.

More Than Growing Pains

Oppositional defiant disorder (ODD) is a disorder characterized by negative, disobedient or defiant behavior. Children and adolescents go through a natural developmental process of gaining a stronger sense of identity. During this difficult period, most children exhibit “testing” behavior. The defiant characteristics of ODD tend to persist longer and are more severe, but not so extreme to the point of violating social rules or limits.

Unlike growing pains typically undergone by most children and teenagers, children with ODD are prone to challenge and push authorities to their limits. If your adolescent engages often in rule-breaking and frequent arguing, they are more likely to have oppositional defiant disorder.

Counseling for ODD

ODD symptoms are overwhelming. You are likely wondering how you can help your oppositional defiant child?

Seeking early treatment for ODD is often a wise choice. This can increase the chances of reversing negative effects on both your child and your family. ODD is often accompanied by other serious behavioral health conditions. It is, therefore, critical to identify and treat ODD as soon as you suspect your child is affected by it to ensure the best chance for success. If left untreated, ODD can develop into Conduct Disorder (CD). ODD also has an increased risk for substance abuse and juvenile delinquency.

Giving up hope is not an option. If you are concerned about your child’s condition you deserve professional support and so does your child. Carolina Counseling Services – Pittsboro, NC may be the answer. There is no “one-size-fits-all” treatment approach, however, finding a therapist that is the right fit for you and your family can make a huge difference. Seeking counseling to help resolve your child’s behavior issues may be exactly what you are looking for. 

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